Friday, October 31, 2008
Trunk-Or-Treat
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Wednesday, October 29, 2008
KEYS!!!
During the Millennium there will be no keys or locks, there will be nothing to inhibit entry. Why, you may ask. It is because I think the only person who has ever been kept out of my car and home by locks is Me!!! Today we had a stressful morning trying to get out the door with all the normal things I deal with on a daily basis: cleaning up the powered hot chocolate Bridger poured all over the kitchen (yesterday it was an entire bottle of baby lotion), rushing to get myself and my children dressed, fed, and packed up. I thought we were doing really well. We'd actually make it in time to Angeli's doctors appointment despite the chaos that is my life. But no. I realized we were locked out of the van! I was so mad. This happens to me (or by me as my husband would correct) so often. I really need those hidden key things on the outside of my house and the outside of my car, but yeah, I don't have those. So today Angeli missed her doctors appointment, I will not get any of my errands done, I had to reschedule all my visiting teaching, and now I have to have the primary meeting at my house which means I have to clean. UGH!!! Well, I better stop complaining, my children are on a post trunk-or-treat sugar high and I am sure disaster will soon ensue if I don't attend to their screaming. Wish me luck until the Millennium!
Posted by Emily Rasmussen at 10:35 AM 4 comments
Friday, October 24, 2008
HELP WANTED!
I need someone to be my personal assistant for the next week. This job entails: watching my children, running my business (I have an appointment at 6pm tonight so you better be able to work asap), cleaning my house (bathrooms are in major need of a deep scrub), folding the laundry and putting it away, cleaning and organizing my garage and closets, weeding my yard and spreading weed-and-feed heavily throughout our grass, studying for my husband so I can see him at least some each day, cleaning out my car - its really awful, and running my errands. My car really needs an oil change so you'd need to get on that asap too. Oh, and I forgot three important things at the store today that you'd need to go pick up for me: diapers for both kids, I forgot to actually pick up the prescription I dropped off, and I need Hershey's kisses for the cookies I have to drop off at three people's houses this weekend. And when your done I really need a pedicure, a back rub, and my hair done!!!
The Pay? If it were up to me you'd instantly qualify for the Celestial Kingdom!!! ;)
Any Takers?
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Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Kid Updates
Every so often I like to write out all the cute stages my kids are in so I don't forget as the months and years pass. So that is what this is. This might only be interesting for me and the grandparents. Sorry!
Bridger- Our little man is growing up. Today he is 33 months old. Getting pretty close to three! He is a chatter box these days. I can hardly keep up with all his thoughts. If you have talked to us on the phone in the past few weeks chances are you got to talk to Bridger too. He loves talking on the phone. Stewart's med buddies say he talks like Elmo. Elmo is cute so I guess that is a good thing right? He and Angeli have started to really play together. It is a stage I have been looking forward to since I was pregnant with Angi. Its so nice to stop what I am doing and realize my kids are both giggling together in their room playing some game they made up. Bridger has graduated to not having to ride in the cart when we go to the store. Somedays he stays right by my side and other days I am threatening him left and right that he'll have to get in the cart if he runs away again. He is doing really well in preschool. He loves it. He loves to count things but can only count to 2. So he'll count all the cars in the parking lot but it's like this: "1, 2. 1, 2. 1,2. A 1!" Its cute. I think he is getting closer and closer to potty training. He still is a little afraid of the potty chair but he is beginning to realize that going potty is a private thing. I think as soon as he decides he's up for trying out his potty chair we'll be in business. We're crossing our fingers! He is getting excited for little Benjy. When we set up the baby stuff next month I think he'll be very excited to help. When I tell him something is for the baby he holds it up to my tummy and says, "Here you go baby." He is starting to really love music too. Every time he hears music he has to inform me that he can hear it and then he tries to sing along. My favorite is when Angeli and Bridger try to sing along with Ariel. It's the most off key singing you ever heard but darling all the same. He is sort of obsessed with princesses and "Man Man" as he calls any super hero. When he thinks either I or Angeli look pretty he tells us we are princesses. How cute is that!?!? I tell Stew not to worry about the princess obsession because all it means is that he is just into pretty girls. ;) As always he is our energetic, happy, and sweet little guy. The other day I was sick and throwing up. Stew was gone and Angeli was sleeping. Bridger came into the bathroom and took care of me. He asked me if I was okay. When I told him I was sick he hugged me. Then he took me by the hand and led me to the couch, brought me his teddy bear, his two favorite blankets, and cuddled up to me. What a sweet boy! Of course he then started to climb all over me and started jumping off the couch giggling and having a ball. He really can only be mellow for about 10 minutes at a time. :O)
Angeli- Is looking more and more like Bridger's twin then his little sister. She is now 20 months old. Four more months and she'll be two! She is keeping up with her brother so well. She copies most of what he dose - for better or for worse. :) Bridger loves milk, Angi not so much, but if he asks for it she will too. I try and tell her that I know she really would rather have juice but she insists that if Bridger is having milk she better have it to. She'll then just carry it around and eventually offers it to Bridger. Funny little thing! She is turning into such a little helper and nurturer. I will ask Bridger to get a new diaper but she always beats him to it. When anyone drops something she gets it for them without us even asking. And if I ever get her a snack or a teddy bear or whatever she insists that Bridger gets one too. At church her favorite activity is pointing out all the babies she sees. She'll scream at the top of her lungs, "BABY!" right in the middle of sacrament when she spots a new baby. And if she can get close enough to a baby she tries to take care of them. Last Sunday my friend and I were busy talking and didn't realize Angi had access to her new baby. We looked down and she had given the baby her pacifier, her blanky, and then was offering her some of her sippy cup. So motherly! Angeli is always polite. Says her "please' and "thanks yous" most the time without being asked and always with a huge smile on her face. However, she is getting pretty darn feisty. She is very even tempered and easygoing but when she hits her limit she really lets you know. She throws some pretty dramatic fits now and then. My house at 4pm is not the most calming atmosphere! She is obsessed with shoes and likes looking through her clothes and admiring them. When she wakes up in the morning and I try to get her up to breakfast she must take with her the essentials: both her baby dolls, her teddy bear, her sippy, her blanky, and of course a pair of shoes. It seems whenever we go out no matter how straggly she looks people stop us to tell me how beautiful she is. Angeli really is a pretty little girl. I always get a laugh out of her crusty looks she gives strangers when they start invading her personal space. She waves "hi" to everyone we pass but if they do more then wave back she gets a bit uneasy. I really like that attribute in my pretty little girl, I cant help being a little protective of her. :) Angeli is such a sweet joy to have in our family. We adore her.
Benjamin- He is growing too! Benjy is now 32 weeks along. According to my pregnancy book he should be 15 inches long and 3 pounds. He is a strong little guy. I feel a lot of muscle behind those kicks and squirms. As I type he is having a good workout trying to dislodge my ribs...he just might succeed. :) We are all excited for his coming debut.
Here is a very shaky video of the kids. After watching this I realized there are no calm moments in our house. But you can really see their personalities come out in this. Angeli is not as into performing as Bridger but she loves copying everything her big brother dose. And Bridger....its pretty obvious he is a Hyper Happy Boy. Just imagine the chaos we'll have come December!
* you'll want to stop the music if your going to watch the video.
Posted by Emily Rasmussen at 9:51 AM 2 comments
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
A SpOoKy Day at PreSchool
I love Bridger's little preschool. It has its down sides like extra work for me. But despite the extra stress to my already stressful life it has been such a good thing for me. It gets me motivated to do the fun things I would never otherwise do for my kids. Today I think I was more excited about their SPOOKY lesson then they were. First, they went on a ghost hunt. This was a last minute activity inspired by the roll of toilet paper Angeli unrolled for me the other day. Its amazing how spooky a little toilet paper and black marker can be! ;) Then they made spooky posters with all sorts of scary stickers. They got to learn all the letters that spell spooky, Bridger of course thought they were all "e". That's his favorite letter these days. That was followed by a spooky science experiment with baking soda, vinegar, and food coloring. I know that's not really spooky but it was spooky to 2 year olds when I told them it was. Hearing their little "oohs" and "aahs" as their cups overflowed with fizzy bubbles was the highlight of my day. Our grand finale was making ghosts with white paint and their cute little feet. Seeing how I make my living taking kids impressions I thought I would get better impressions, it turns out clay is a better medium for me. :) The kids favorite was the science experiment and feeling the paint on their feet. However, snack was a big hit too. I guess placing stickers and chasing down ghosts really wears down a little guy's energy stores.
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Thursday, October 16, 2008
Glenn Beck, hmmmm
Who the heck is Glenn Beck? I didn't know who he was until this summer. My Bro-in-law, Paul, has a friend who had "Bro. Beck" as his Sunday School teacher. I was supposed to think that was cool and interesting but had no idea who the heck this Glenn Beck guy was. I figured he was some sort of political minded busy bodied man who happened to be Mormon, which could be possibly embarrassing to me if he was a right winged radical nut. And many of you might see him just that way. :) But I have come to appreciate him.
As elections,politics, and our economic woes have taken over the media I searched out varying sources from which to gauge my feelings from. It was then on Fox Radio I happened upon Glenn Beck's radio program. It's kind of hard to miss, it's like four hours long every morning. At first I was a little overwhelmed by his intensity. I had never heard anyone in national media talk that way before. He is ultra conservative - Think BYU's American Heritage GE style of conservatism. However, because he is Mormon the way he said things was really comfortable to listen to thanks to our common vernacular and the fact that I am a hard core American Heritage fan. Well, he is a little dooms day - ish, I do find myself rolling my eyes now and then but honestly I find him refreshing to listen too after growing up in my generation and in a very anti-conservative atmosphere of the California education system.
So to get to the point.... He has written a series of letters and this one was put out yesterday. I actually looked it up on my computer and read it. I know, go me! So political. I really am way into politics, I just don't talk about it to you unless your like my mom or my husband. I take my time processing politics and so I like to sit back and listen most of the time while I try to derive what truth there is to be had. Anyways, I thought I would post Glenn Beck's letter on my blog because if I had never heard him talk before I would find his viewpoint truly astonishing amongst the array of voices screaming out at us from the media. I think it is worth knowing exists so you can process it for yourself as either truth or bull. I think it is good for us to ponder all sorts of ideas this one included. I am not 100% in agreement with all of this but I find most of it as really sound and good. Sorry, this is a majorly long blog entry - feel free to skim! :O)
Glenn Beck: What Can I Do to Prepare?
October 15, 2008 - 3:00 ET
Guys,
Here is the third letter I promised you. In my earlier letters I've explained "what happened" and "what's coming." Today, I want to answer the questions you've asked regarding "what can I do to prepare myself and my family."
Related Articles:
Glenn Beck: What happened?
Glenn Beck: What's Coming
The focus has to be on 'value' and 'values.' These are the concepts that too many of us have forgotten, celebrities dismissed as old-fashioned or politicians tried to convince us were no longer necessary.
The good news is that our current economic mess is manmade. We did this to ourselves by continuing to elect politicians who sold our country to militant community activists, greedy mortgage brokers and Wall Street types who placed profits above anything else. We were all involved, Republicans, Democrats and Independents. We made this problem by choosing to believe the lie that we could have it all and have it right now. But being manmade means we also have the capacity to solve it.
It is not going to be easy. I believe that the economy is going to get a lot worse. The 'experts' are telling us that we're headed towards at least 10% unemployment and a possible 10 year period of economic stagnation. I fear it could be much worse and so do many of the people that advise me on these matters.
What follows are the things that my family is doing to prepare for substantially tougher economic times.
Your Finances
I'm not a financial expert but even the 'experts' didn't know what our grandparents knew: unnecessary debt is something you have to avoid, it is not a good thing. In our version of the Roaring 20's, the financial elite had lawn parties in the Hamptons where invited guests arrived via helicopter. The parties we had didn't involve helicopters and other excesses but our job as responsible Americans will be to identify our 'helicopters.'
Soon, the Wall Street crowd will turn to the actual economy and the conversation and pressure will change to consumer spending. Remember, YOU are the engine of the US economy. Wall Street NEEDS you to spend. I pray that we hold fast to the 'storm clouds' that are still gathering and ignore the lures and lies that will attempt to hook you back into your old style 'lawn party.' We will continue to spend and consume. We just need to focus on a few out of fashion American values such as thrift, value and moderation.
You know what your family can afford and what it needs. Kids still need to go to college, broken cars still need to be repaired and worn-out appliances still have to be replaced. What needs to change is how we shop. We need to look for value and we MUST live within our means.
How do you know when you're getting something for a good value? Just imagine buying it (whatever it is) in front of dad. Can you imagine telling dad that you 'need' to spend an extra $3,000 so your car can come with that 'must have' automatic self-closing sunroof option? Or paying an extra $650 on a washing machine option so it can connect to the internet? I'm beginning to think that if dad won't spend the money on it, I probably don't need it. Dad is great at spotting value and it's his sense of values that makes him so good at it. I always try to think like my grandfather when I want to buy something, if in my head, he says, "Why, you've got a perfectly good one now," I know I don't need it.
The economy is in for a very rough landing. I think it's more and more probable that we hit a major long-term recession. That's not a reason to panic but if we know what's coming we can start to prepare now.
I don't know who you get your financial advice from (advisor, friend, on your own) but you need to ask these two questions:
First, what caused the current economic crisis?
If you can't answer this question or your financial planner can't give you an easily understandable answer, please get more information or think about replacing your financial planner. You need to know what got us here because that will help you understand what's coming.
Second, how bad will things get?
No one knows what's specifically coming our way but I do know that all possibilities are on the table. Whoever you're getting your financial advice from must be willing to admit that he or she doesn't have all the answers and that we are in relatively unchartered waters. If they don't think that this is a once in a lifetime event and just about anything could happen, move on.
Hyperinflation: Printing Money is Not the Answer
This is the real devil in our 'bailout' packages that seem to be coming every day. The same people that told me that there is no way we could go into a recession, let alone, a depression now tell me Wall Street and our politicians are too smart to create these doomsday conditions.
I don't know about you but I sure haven't been impressed with the Wall Street and Washington genius so far. After all, they weren't smart enough to figure out that 0% down on a 125% loans to individuals that were not required to present ID or a paycheck stubs was trouble.
I do know that if the answer was just to print more money our politicians would have solved this crisis $1.8 trillion dollars ago. But printing more money is not the answer, in fact, it's causing other problems and possibly setting us up for a long-term disaster. Every American must read up on and ponder what I believe is the real possibility of hyperinflation.
This past summer we had a $152 billion stimulus package, followed by a combined $123 billion bailout of AIG, which was followed by another $700 billion bailout bill. As I write this, politicians are promising swift action on yet another stimulus plan and the government has announced a direct injection of $250 billion into several large banks. No problem has ever been solved by just throwing money at it but plenty of problems have been caused by doing just that.
Countries that have tried to spend their way out of an economic crisis have always triggered inflation (i.e. Argentina, Israel and Iran). Hyperinflation is caused when people lose faith in the value of a currency, too much money is printed and there is no corresponding increase in productivity. So instead of printing $50 and $100 bills the government prints $300 and $500 bills but your $500 bill only buys $50 worth of goods. Soon the $500 bill is replaced by a $1000 bill.
One of the best examples of hyperinflation is the Weimar Republic where that government actually printed a one-trillion dollar bill and you still couldn't buy a newspaper with it.
Germany took its first inflationary steps when it decided to fight World War I on borrowed money. It didn't want to raise taxes and there was relatively little in national savings so it borrowed money to build and arm its war machine. Does this sound familiar? It should, it's what we're doing now.
The War which started in 1914 officially ended in 1919 and during that same period of time the prices of goods in Germany doubled. In other words, inflation was running about 20% a year.
Three years later, in 1922, those same goods doubled in price in just 5 months! The process continued to accelerate until menus in cafes had to be re-written throughout the day just to keep up with rising prices. When someone got paid they were met by their spouse who would literally run to spend the money as quickly as possible and no one saved money because the longer you held on to it the less you were able to buy. With no one saving and no countries lending any more money, the government did the only thing it could do, crank up the printing presses and print more money.
The same economic laws that applied to the Weimar Republic apply to America today.
Our government tells us that inflation was recently running at 5.4%. What they don't tell you is that in 1983 government changed the way they measure inflation. If the government used the same inflation measures that it used in 1983 inflation would be running between 10%-12%. Naturally, when the government altered the way it measured inflation it coincidently found that it wouldn't have to pay out as much money in Social Security and other benefits pegged to inflation.
We won't see a true spike in inflation until next fall. It's coming unless the government makes serious changes. If we continue to borrow billions of dollars a day from foreign countries while printing trillions more we are inviting, no begging, for hyperinflation to come and pay us a visit. Please consider this as you decide who to vote for in this upcoming election. Anyone, at any level, running for office who isn't talking about REAL and considerable cuts in government programs and avoiding new spending is either a fool or lying about what's coming.
You can prepare your family for economically tighter times. Our family has been preparing by buying food now that will last us for another 3 to 6 months. I want to be clear: we didn't run out and buy it all at once. Instead, when we went shopping and saw something on sale that we new we would be using in the next 3-6 months we bought a few more than we normally would. We're in the process of doing the same thing with our kids' clothes and shoes. They're growing-up and will need the next size-up in pants, shirts and shoes so Tania and I keep our eyes open for sales and when we see something that's a good value we buy it now knowing that in a year or two our kids will be able to use it and that prices could be substantially higher.
I think this is a good investment and a good way to spend money today that may be worth less tomorrow. Don't run out and liquidate your savings or assets to buy shoes and shirts for the next 10 years, plan and purchase with prudence and moderation.
Guns
You've asked me if you should go out and buy a gun. This is a very personal decision and I struggled for over 2 years trying to make this decision. I never wanted a gun in the house but after discussing it with Tania (and Adam) we decided it was the right decision for our family to have a gun in the home for self-defense.
Before we even thought of buying a gun and bringing it into our home, we spent countless hours at various gun shops asking lots of questions. We also reached out to the NRA (which, as you know, is one of the only organizations that I believe in and belong to) and took several courses in shooting and gun safety. If you're willing to make that kind of commitment then, and only then, can you start to consider whether or not you should purchase a gun.
If you decide to buy make sure you have a home safe that can be easily opened by you and your spouse. Also, when selecting a gun, make sure you ask your dealer for a gun that doesn't take exotic or hard to get ammunition.
The gun laws may DRAMATICALLY change with the election of the next President and a new Congress. Time may be of the essence on this issue so vote with that in mind.
Values
Why are we so different from grandma and grandpa? Remember how they made our clothes? They knitted sweaters and gloves, mended tears and placed patches over holes in our jeans and shirts. What do we do today? We go out and buy our kids clothes that are intentionally faded, frayed or torn. Our grandparents would think we were nuts for doing that.
How many times did we hear, "who left this light on" or "turn off the light when you're not using it." They didn't say this because they were swept up in the latest environmentally friendly fad; they said it because they hated waste. They didn't see themselves as conservationists but at their core they were the first truly 'green' generation.
It's their example that inspired me to re-discover the traditional American family eating plan in our home. This plan applies to mom, dad and all four kids. It's simple: if you don't finish your dinner, it's wrapped and put in the fridge and the next day you have to finish your leftovers.
What a great decision this has been because I'm more careful about what I put on my plate and have already had dinner table discussions with my kids about being grateful for what we've been blessed with and why it's important to avoid wasting food.
Gardening
Tania and I are planning on planting our very first garden next year (yes, I promise to send you pictures to prove it). We've already bought the fertilizer and seeds. In a way this is going to be our modern day Victory Garden our parents and grandparents planted during World War II.
A lot of people think we're planting the garden just for the food and although that's part of it, Tania and I really believe that our family will grow closer by all gardening together. Our hope is that our children will have a greater appreciation for the meals they eat when they experience the work in growing the food they will eat.
We've got so much to learn. I've already learned that there is a difference between heirloom seeds (not genetically modified) and those seeds which have been genetically modified. There are advantages and disadvantages to each type, so familiarize yourself with their respective pluses and minuses. Research what grows well in your area and what you will need to keep your plants healthy and growing.
I do want to share something I learned about seeds. Heirloom seeds are capable of producing viable seeds. So you will always have seeds to plant for the upcoming year. Several genetically modified seeds have 'terminator technology' (that's their phrase, not mine) which will prevent these seeds from reproducing viable seeds.
I'm for reasonable and safe genetically modified seeds and food. They allow people to grow crops where they normally wouldn't be able to and are more robust against disease and predators. Coming-up with all that technology is expensive so these seed producers recoup their costs by limiting the ability to reproduce. You need to have those seeds that are capable of reproducing.
Out of everything I have planned for next year, I can tell you that gardening ranks at the top. It is long term, it brings the family together on a project and it not only teaches my children science but the value of hard work. Does that make me a true sick freak?
Good Books
This is going to sound hokey but we all need to read the Constitution, the Declaration of Independence and the Federalist Papers. We need to go to the original sources, not someone's interpretation of them. Reading these documents will remind us of what our Founding Fathers really intended for us. Their words will inspire us and renew our faith in America.
We need to familiarize ourselves with the founding principles our country and Constitution are built on. We need to better understand the Founding Fathers, what they believed and how they lived their lives.
The books we read should teach us about our heritage. They should inspire us and educate our children. We need books that tell us the greatness of America's past and the promise of her future. We need to read about the mistakes the government has made so we can avoid taking those same paths. The books that I think best capture these principles are:
* The 5000 Year Leap
* The Real George Washington
* The Real Benjamin Franklin
* The Real Thomas Jefferson
Each of these books dramatically demonstrates that America was built on the collective sacrifices of individuals who willingly gave their "lives, fortunes and sacred honor." They remind us that real power rests with "We the People," not Wall Street, Washington or Hollywood.
Also, read books on history that can help you see what may be coming based on our past. The parallels are truly frightening. We are going down the same path by making the same mistakes. These books include:
* The Forgotten Man (on the mistakes of the great depression)
* Woodrow Wilson and the Roots of Modern Liberalism (arguably the world's first fascist leader and one reason why our children are now taught in school that the Founding Fathers and the Constitution are irrelevant)
* Liberal Fascism (reveals the real danger and roots behind the nanny state mentality and what it means to America's future)
Family Time
As a country we've neglected our most important asset and resource: our children. We've become so busy trying to provide the best for 'things' and opportunities for them that we work longer hours, spend more time away from home and too often don't give them the attention they need and deserve. If the economy starts to sink, this situation will get worse.
One of the best things we can do now is to build stronger ties with our spouse and children. Our family gets together once a week for a 'family night.'
This past week Raphe had the lesson, "my favorite animal." I was in charge of the game, everyone had to imitate their favorite animal and Tania baked cupcakes for our snack. It's amazing what miracles have taken place in those short 30 minute 'family night' get-togethers. We may have forgotten this in our 'Roaring 20's' mentality but it remains true: simple things have real and lasting value.
Tania and I also set aside time for just the two of us. We have date nights where just the two of us go out. It's usually nothing fancy. Sometimes we go out for a walk or just window shopping. We've even gone on a 'date' to the grocery store to pick-up some groceries. It's not really what you actually do but the fact that we spend time together. It refreshes me. It brings us together. I love this time.
Finally, just continue to seek out those sources you trust and continue to ponder and think the unthinkable. While these things hopefully don't ever take place, they are certainly possible and unfortunately becoming more probable everyday.
The good news is that there's still time to prepare ourselves and our families. We created this problem and we can solve it but there won't be any shortcuts or an easy way out.
We must vote for those candidates of any party that reflect these values: hard work, self-determination, smaller government, fiscal responsibility and honesty. Look to the character of anyone you chose to support. Their past does matter if they haven't learned from it. Their personal life is as relevant as their public one. We must be able to trust those who will be advising and leading us on what our country must do next.
The problems we face in this country can be traced back to the lack of trust. Our whole system fails if we do not trust it and right now we do not have that trust. In the last 20 years we have lost trust in our presidents, congress and court system. It was lost when politicians argued over the definition of 'is,' the duplicity on our border security, during the OJ trial, by a renegade 9th Circuit Court of Appeals, the 2006 Republican Mark Foley sex scandal and the 2008 Democrat Tim 'more moral future' Mahoney sex scandal and so many other hypocrisies and double-crosses. Our lost of trust was inevitable.
Our political system was not designed around the people in power or really even us. It began with the core belief that we were created and given rights by God. For America to truly fulfill its promise we must restore our faith in the only thing that is solid, unchanging and real: God.
As we find ourselves not trusting our leaders, institutions or even our currency, remember the secret is simple and found as close as your pocket or purse. How appropriate that on the symbol of our present troubles we find the answer: IN GOD WE TRUST.
Only those who are mentally, emotionally, spiritually and temporally prepared will be strong enough to help themselves and others. Many will be fearful if these things come to pass but if you prepare now, fear is the one thing you will not have to worry about. You are not a victim. You are not a survivor. You are a leader. You are an American.
We are all Americans. Let us recommit that, regardless of where we stand politically, we will do the tough things to save our nation because the task at hand requires no less.
The Americans of the past did not look for leadership to come from the politician in the White House for they knew American leadership only came from your house.
Fear not, stay strong and lead the way.
glenn
Posted by Emily Rasmussen at 1:44 PM 1 comments
Monday, October 13, 2008
My Hubby
This week my sweet husband turned 27 years old. Happy Birthday babe! I must say the appreciation I have for my husband seems to grow more and more with each passing year. this birthday as I reflected on the blessing my husband is to me and my life I have realized with deeper love and gratitude what a truly great man I am married to.
I love complimenting him because he is wonderful and yet also very meek, he never tries to show off or impress others. So pardon me while I gush a little about him. :) Since we were first married I seemed to look on our relationship with a sort of awe. I never thought there would be someone who could make me so very very happy. I am wholeheartedly sure that most of our happiness together comes from what he brings to our relationship. Without fail he is patient, loving, strong, pure in heart, diligent, calm, unshaken by the petty and trite, honest, has unboastful confidence, is supportive of all that is decent and good, is trusting and believing, trustworthy, never judgmental, hard working, effortlessly consistent, an undemanding kind friend, a loving son to his mother and father, a faithful friend to his siblings, a tender and fun father to his children, and the world to his wife. If that was all I could say about him that would be enough to merit him a man of true greatness. He is a humble and steadfast man of God and I am so glad he is mine. Stewart thank you for being mine. You have given me every happiness. May we have many more happy birthdays side by side.
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First Snow
We had a little snow storm come through Reno this weekend. It was fun but I am glad it isn't staying. I am not really ready for winter just yet. Something about getting everyone dressed with winter gear is simply exhausting. But it was pretty and Bridger loved it. Every morning he looks outside to see if there is any snow and has been disappointed the past two days that there hasn't been any on the ground.
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Sunday, October 12, 2008
Family Scripture Study
We try to read the scriptures every night as a family. Besides our forming good family habits and traditions of scripture study it often feels that our children get very little, if anything, out of it. We have been wanting to invest in the easy readers but have never seemed to get around to it. Recently Stewart discovered that the church has them on-line. Each chapter is like a little movie that shows the pictures and reads the brief descriptions. My kids love them. It has become our new way of doing scripture study. We try to make it interactive throughout the movie by pointing things out to the kids, at the end of the movie talk about what we watched, and then close our study with a very simple testimony of the main point. I really think they are getting more from it this way. When they are older we will surly switch it up but for now we love it and wanted to share our new discovery with those of you out there that likewise have toddlers calling most the shots in your home. Here is a link to the Scripture Stories. We hope some of you can at least have a fun FHE with it or something. :)
Easy Reader Scripture Stories
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Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Emily's Happy Birthday
I am now 24 years old. That makes me feel old. I know that is young but my "internal identity" is stuck at around 21 or so. It will take awhile for that to sink in. This year it seemed to sneak up on me. I just didn't think much about it. However, I had a lovely birthday. It was a busy day. A running late for everything sort of day that was almost completely nonstop. Thankfully Stew took care of the celebrating. He arranged for these super nice girls from his school to watch the kids, total dolls! The kids were kicking us out of the house once they saw their fun babysitters arrive. Stew took me on a romantic picnic, we went for a walk, rented a movie, and then we came home to our cute kids to do the happy birthday cake thing with them. Bridger was dressed as Buz Lightyear when we came home, it made him look like a Umpa Lumpa - so funny. Stew and the kids put together a banana cream pie for me (I've been craving one lately). It was delicious. Having my little family around me excited that I am theirs was the highlight of my day. I adore them. It was very much our type of celebrating... low key and sweet. Thanks Stewy, I had a great birthday. :O)
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Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Happy Birthday Emily and Stewart!!!
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My Doctor and Nurse said What!
So, at my doctors appointment this week my doctor seemed really concerned about my contractions I have been having. I was not concerned though - totally normal right? She told me that I can't lift my kids "unless it is an emergency". I wanted to laugh as I watched Bridger and Angeli terrorize the tiny office room we sat in as she said that to me. I told her that was probably not really going to happen but that I promised to try and take it easier. She said she doesn't want the baby to come early, and I honestly thought that sounded pretty good! :O) No, I really don't want the baby coming as early as Angeli or earlier. Babies that come too early are really not the happiest to be out of the womb, that is where they belong and thrive for good reasons. BUT, I would be thrilled with 2 weeks early so the baby doesn't come during Stew's finals as Benjy's due date indicates. I informed my friends after my appointment that I was not really possible to take it easy so I wasn't even going to stress about it.
Today as I carried out this Laissez-faire attitude and was totally ignoring my doctor I received a call from the nurse who is overseeing my pregnancy for Medicaid. She calls me every four weeks to check on me. The first thing she asked was if I was having contractions. I answered yes and wondered what she'd have to say about it. I took hope that she'd say it was okay as long as they were stopping when I rested. But no such answer came. She started stressing out too. I had to try and convince her it was ok. Isn't it normal to have contractions!!! I mean "it was the same way with Angeli", but that didn't work so well because Angeli came early. As she questioned me and we talked ways to take it easy she was even more stressed... I have two toddlers, a husband in med school, and I am running my own business -lifting clay not too lite. It was a loosing battle. She finally said "Well, I hope you don't end up on my list of women on bedrest or being admitted to the hospital". A little dramatic right? She made me promise to be "kind to myself". Which I did, but wondered if she could make my kids promise to be nice to me too - honestly they are the ones with the power. In the end I was annoyed because I figured I had to listen after all. If the message is being hammered into me twice in two days I guess it's for a reason. Honestly though, what kind of taking it easy is really possible!?!?
Stewart wouldn't let me do hardly anything yesterday after I told him about my appointment. My doctor said I cant go to the store by myself anymore, vacuum, lift my children or anything heavy, and so on. Humph!
So ladies, what is normal contractions or braxton hicks? How often or what advice did your doctors ever give you? I think they might be overreacting because Angeli came early and are assuming my contractions are worse then they are. Is this stressing really necessary?
Posted by Emily Rasmussen at 1:25 PM 4 comments
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Benjamin and I at 29 Weeks!
For some reason 29 weeks is an important week for me when I am pregnant. It's when I seem to realize that I have a little person in me that is coming in not too long. It's when I finally look like a big pregnant lady, its right before I hit 30 weeks, when I start to have my doctors appointments every two weeks... I guess its when I realize I am in the final stretch. 29 weeks has become the time when I take my"important" maternity pictures. I guess because with Bridger that was when I finally had a baby bump. So here are my pictures of me at 29 weeks starting with Bridger. Looking at them I want to grow my hair out again and go darker don't you agree?
Today I finally felt my first eagerness to get my pregnancy over with asap. To be honest, I am a bit miserable these days. I just wish I could remember what it is like to feel good. It has been a long time! Okay, enough complaining!
There are some pregnancy things that are fun. Like when Benjamin got the hiccups for the first time last night. I loved it. He didn't seem to like it very much though. He kept squirming and kicking until they stopped. It was cute.
I am not sure if I know how to express how in love I am with this kid but I really am. With my other two kiddos it took me awhile to really love them while I was pregnant. With Bridger it was all so new, Angeli I was still getting used to being a mom to Bridger I didn't really know how to think about loving another baby. I loved them during my pregnancy but not as confidently as I do this time. I feel like I already know this little guy so well. Stewart gave me a blessing early on that told me that "the spirit I was carrying would be very close by me throughout my pregnancy". So I guess this is all just the fulfillment of that blessing. Really, I feel like we are buddies. I am just head over heels in love with this little baby. When I think about his birth I am most excited with the thought that I can finally share him with my family; that Stewart and the kids will get to know him too. I cant wait for Benjy to officially be ours. Without a doubt I know he has a lot to bring to our little family and I am simply thrilled he'll be joining us soon. Benjamin, we love you. Thanks for being ours.
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Friday, October 3, 2008
LOVE THIS!!!
My brother posted this on my Smith family blog. I loved it and had to share it too. It is one of those quotes that shines light on what life is all about. enjoy.
From Marjorie Hinckley:
"I don’t want to drive up to the pearly gates in a shiny sports car, wearing beautifully, tailored clothes, my hair expertly coiffed, and with long, perfectly manicured fingernails. I want to drive up in a station wagon that has mud on the wheels from taking kids to scout camp. I want to be there with grass stains on my shoes from mowing Sister Schenk’s lawn. I want to be there with a smudge of peanut butter on my shirt from making sandwiches for a sick neighbor’s children. I want to be there with a little dirt under my fingernails from helping to weed someone’s garden. I want to be there with children’s sticky kisses on my cheeks and the tears of a friend on my shoulder. I want the Lord to know I was really here and that I really lived."
Posted by Emily Rasmussen at 9:04 PM 2 comments

